Happy 89th Birthday Grandma!

Today is my grandma's 89th birthday! Normally we'd be celebrating and all getting together tonight for it but the circumstances are different this year. Thursday evening grandpa wasn't feeling well and was loosing feeling in his left hand and foot. Mom called 911 and the ambulance came and took him to the hospital in Lyons. The got oxygen on him and a heart monitor and started running tests. They have found out that he has pneumonia and also his carotid artery on the right side of his neck are blocked. This blockage is what caused the loss of feeling in his left side. Grandpa has been in the hospital ever since and will remain there for awhile. Grandma has Alzheimer's and doesn't really know what's going on and can't stay by herself. Friday, Saturday and Sunday the girls and I stayed with her quite a bit. It was nice to get to spend time with her but we realize we can't keep doing this and grandpa can't take care of her anymore. Thursday we'll have to put her in a nursing home. We have talked about it just didn't know when we should do it and grandpa kept saying that he could do it a little while longer. Grandpa will be 92 in September and he's done a good job so far but we're afraid for his health dealing with her too. We've been fortunate to have them stay at home together this long. We all know that sometimes this has to happen. We just pray that they both handle it well.

My mom is an amazing woman handling all this on her own. Her half sister lives in Vegas and fell a couple months ago and broke her hip so she isn't able to help out. Mom stays pretty strong. She goes and sees grandpa, comes home to take care of grandma when someone else can't come out and stay with her and prepares to go back to work Wednesday. I pray for my mother too that she can handle the stress and everything.

Spending time with grandma brought back so many memories of how she used to be and the things we used to do when we stayed at their house. I got out old toys, books and puzzles that we used to play with for the girls to play with. It was fun to sit down and play with them again!

Cheyenne was such a sweetheart with Grandma. One time I was visiting with mom on the back porch and Cheyenne came in and said "Mema, I helped Grandma to the bathroom. I held her hand so she wouldn't fall." My 3 year old understands more than I think. She knows to just say yes or no to Grandma and not ask questions when she doesn't know what she's talking about. Both girls were a big help in keeping Grandma entertained over the weekend. Although Grandma didn't get the naps she usually gets when it's only her and Grandpa.

The girls and I with Grandma on Sunday!

On August 14th Grandma and Grandpa also celebrated their 61st wedding anniversary! What a blessing to have been married for 61 years!

We all had dinner at mom and dad's to celebrate their anniversary!

The girls with Grandma and Grandpa!

Happy Birthday Grandma! I know she won't understand that today is her birthday but hopefully we can make it a special day for her.